Just a thought

She is not desperate .
The way she feels is the way she knows how to. Too clingy or too distant can never be enough to love if that is not what you want.

The guys will disrespect you because you are true to your feelings and will call your pretense when you do not show too much because you try to guard ‎yourself.

Let this be a compromise. Be honest and safe then she will run to you as you want her to. Do not push her into something without helping her get in slowly.

Do not judge because you have no idea why. You have no idea how scared she is and why. Do not push her down because you think you have the upper hand. It is just a thought!